Christian Husbands: How One 10-Minute 'Open Lines Exercise' Makes Her Reconsider Leaving ... Even When She's Half-Way Out The Door (For Good)
Father Don Purdum’s 6-Part System Has Quietly Helped Over 1,000 Christian Men Win Back Their Wife’s Heart - Starting With This 10-Minute Exercise.
She's still in your bed. But she left your marriage 18 months ago.
She’s already Googled divorce lawyers. You just don’t know it yet.
Most men feel it dying. But they wait until it’s too late to move.
And you're probably wondering if it's too late to save it.
You know that moment when you walk through your front door and feel like you're interrupting your own family?
When your 8-year-old draws a picture of the family and Daddy's at work... not even in the house?
When your wife's eyes don't light up anymore... they just look tired?
When "How was your day?" gets a one-word answer while she scrolls her phone?
Brother, you're not imagining it.
You've become invisible in your own home.
The provider she depends on... but the man she no longer knows.
You've become a ghost haunting your own life.
The paycheck with legs who disrupts their routine.
Every night, you sit beside her in silence, wondering how she went from lover to roommate to stranger.
Wondering when you became the man she tolerates instead of the man she chose.
The brutal truth?
She didn't stop loving you overnight.
She stopped believing you were capable of loving her back.
Here's what 31 years of marriage and mentoring 1,000+ broken Christian couples have taught me:
She hasn’t given up - she’s just given up on you. But you can still turn the years of "I have to leave" into "I can't resist him"
Right now, you hold her hand every Sunday morning in church, clutching her a little tighter because you don't know if it's the last time ...
You've become a Christian husband performer instead of a covenant partner.
And she knows it.
That's why she looks at you like you're a stranger wearing her husband's face.
That's why you feel more respected by strangers at work than by your own family...
You never meant for this to happen.
But somewhere along the way, you became the man she has to protect herself from.
Providing financially while starving her emotionally.
Praying about her instead of with her.
And now? She's done pretending your performance is enough.
Here's the brutal truth that will save your marriage ...
She doesn’t need a better husband.
She needs to feel emotionally safe in your presence again. and right now, she flinches every time you get close.
No one taught you how to lead her through this. Until now.
Here's how you fix it and finally prove to her that you're worth fighting for ...
Get raw. Get real. And claim ownership over everything that's happened right now.
Tell her the truth that you don't have it figured out (and that's completely okay).
The truth that you're scared you're losing her.
The truth that you've been hiding behind your provider role because real intimacy terrifies you.
I know what you're thinking: "If I show weakness, she'll lose what little respect she has left."
Brother, she already has no respect for the man you're pretending to be.
But the man you actually are? The broken, desperate, covenant-keeping warrior who's willing to fight for his family?
That man she could fall in love with again.
The night you stop performing and start Getting REAL is the night your marriage begins.
It all starts with the "coming clean conversation" ...
Not the conversation where you admit something drastic ...
The conversation where you acknowledge you don't know how to love her the way Christ loves the church.
The conversation where you stop being her spiritual leader only and start being her spiritual partner.
THIS is the secret to ignite true romance and revival in your marriage ...
Transparency isn't the opposite of spiritual leadership. It's the foundation of it.
I’m Father Don Purdum, and I've been in ministry for over 25 years, and married for 31...
And I've helped more than a thousand couples through the exact crisis you're facing right now.
And what I discovered will shock you.
The problem isn't that you're not spiritual enough.
The problem isn't that you're not working hard enough to provide for your family.
The problem isn't even that you need to "communicate better" or "spend more quality time together."
The real problem is something that 99% of Christian marriage advice completely misses.
Something that most pastors never learned in seminary.
Something that's been hiding in plain sight in Scripture for 2,000 years.
Let me tell you about the night I could have lost my own marriage.
Pictured: Father Don Purdum
We were many years into our marriage …
My Wife Nicole and I had two young boys, I was serving in pastoral ministry, and from the outside, we looked like the perfect Christian family.
But behind closed doors, we were struggling and figuring out our life.
I was doing everything "right" according to every Christian marriage books I'd read.
I was the spiritual leader.
I led family devotions.
I provided financially.
I made the big decisions.
And Nicole was miserable.
She felt like she was married to a robot who quoted Bible verses instead of sharing his heart.
On the outside I was the perfect pastor and “family man” …
Pictured: Father Don Purdum with his wife Nicole
But within my own marriage I was so scared of everything falling apart …
One night, after another argument that ended with her crying and me feeling like a complete failure, I sat in my study surrounded by marriage books and commentaries.
I wasn't failing as a husband because I wasn't strong enough.
I was failing because I wasn't vulnerable enough. I wasn’t being emotionally honest with myself …
And that's when I stumbled across something that changed everything.
It was a passage I'd read hundreds of times, but I'd never really understood what it meant.
Ephesians 5:25: "Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."
Or with my wife.
See, here's what I discovered that night, and what I've proven with hundreds of couples since:
The foundation of every thriving Christian marriage isn't strength. It's transparency.
Not the kind of transparency where you confess every sin and dump all your problems on your wife.
But the kind of transparency where you stop hiding behind your role as "provider" and "spiritual leader" and start showing up as a real person.
A person who struggles.
Who doubts.
Who needs her.
A person who's strong enough to be weak. A husband who realizes it's a team effort, not a lone-wolf mission.
Now, I know what you're thinking: " Father Don, that sounds dangerous. What if I open up and she uses it against me?"
Brother, she's already using your emotional distance against you.
I always thought that meant I needed to sacrifice more.
Work harder. Provide better. Be stronger.
But that night, God showed me something that shattered everything I thought I knew about biblical marriage.
The phrase "gave himself up" doesn't mean Christ became a better provider for the church.
It means he became completely vulnerable.
Completely transparent.
Completely real.
On the cross, Jesus didn't hide His pain.
He cried out.
He bled. He showed His wounds.
He gave up His image of strength to save His bride.
And that's when it hit me like a lightning bolt:
"Being Strong" May Be Hurting Marriages More Then Helping ...
Because here's what I learned that night, and what every husband who's saved his marriage has discovered...
Women don't fall in love with perfect men. They fall in love with real men.
And the moment you stop performing and start being authentic is the moment everything changes.
But here's the problem most Christian men face:
They don't know HOW to be transparent without being weak.
They don't know HOW to be vulnerable without losing their authority.
They don't know HOW to lead through authenticity instead of performance.
That's exactly why I developed what I call the "Miracle Marriage Method."
It's six biblical values that build on each other, starting with transparency, that transform marriages from the inside out.
Not through better communication techniques.
Not through date nights and romance strategies.
In The Miracle Marriage Method, I give you countless frameworks, strategies, and methods to win her heart back and have the marriage of your dreams.
For example, here’s just ONE exercise I teach in the class.
It’s called the "Open Lines Transparency Exercise"
You sit across from each other on your bed.
You each write down what you're most afraid to share.
Then you read THEIR paper out loud to them.
It takes 10 minutes.
But it's the 10 minutes that changes everything.
Because here's what happens when you finally stop hiding...
Death leads to resurrection.
Jesus Christ had to die so he could redeem humanity and rise to eternal life …
And the death of your false self leads to the resurrection of your marriage.
Now, I've seen this work for couples who were literally signing divorce papers.
I've seen wives who hadn't touched their husbands in months suddenly become affectionate again.
I've seen men who felt like failures in their own homes become the spiritual leaders their families actually want to follow.
But it all starts with one terrifying, liberating decision:
The decision to stop being the husband you think you should be and start being the husband God created you to be.
The decision to trade your false image for your marriage.
What if I told you that one 10-minute conversation could change how your wife looks at you forever?
Not in 6 months. Not after expensive counseling.
What if the breakthrough happened THIS WEEK?
The night you stop performing strength and start showing real surrender is the night your wife remembers why she chose you.
Because here's what I've learned after 31 years of marriage and thousands of hours of counseling:
Your wife doesn't want a perfect husband. She wants a real one.
Your kids don't need a flawless father. They need an authentic one.
And God doesn't bless performance. He blesses surrender.
The question is: Are you ready to stop performing and start living?
Are you ready to discover what happens when you build your marriage on transparency instead of image management?
Are you ready to learn the six biblical values that can transform your marriage from roommates back to soulmates?
Because if you are, then what I'm about to share with you could save not just your marriage, but your entire family legacy.
But I have to warn you: This isn't about becoming a "better" version of the fake husband you've been.
This is about becoming the real husband you were created to be.
And that's going to require you to do the one thing that terrifies most Christian men more than anything else:
Tell the truth.
The truth about your fears.
Your failures.
Your desperate need for your wife's love and respect.
The truth that you don't have it all figured out.
The truth that you need her more than she needs you.
Because that truth?
That vulnerability?
That authentic surrender?
That's not weakness.
That's the foundation of every marriage that survives.
And it's exactly what your wife has been praying for, even if she doesn't know how to ask for it.
The moment you stop hiding behind your provider role and start showing up as a real person is the moment your marriage begins to heal.
But you have to be willing to let your image die so your marriage can live.
Are you ready for that kind of resurrection?
Your marriage has maybe 6 months left.
Maybe less.
Every day you wait, she pulls further away.
Every night you sleep like roommates instead of lovers, the wall gets higher.
Every argument that ends in silence builds her case for why this isn't working.
Your wife is waiting for the real you to finally come home.
But she won't wait forever.
So how do you actually fix this?
The answer isn't as obvious as you would think ...
"Just be more vulnerable!"
"Open up emotionally!"
"Share your feelings more!"
Unfortunately, that advice is only half right.
Because vulnerability without structure is just emotional chaos.
It's like trying to build a house by starting with the roof.
I've watched Christian men try to "be more vulnerable" and completely destroy what little respect they had left.
They confuse surrender with whining, dump their problems on their wives like emotional garbage trucks, and wonder why she recoils instead of reconnects.
Every podcast, every pastor, every marriage retreat talks about love, respect, communication.
But none of them show you the ORDER - the biblical sequence God built into every lasting covenant.
And without that sequence?
You're just rearranging deck chairs on the Titanic.
See, what I discovered that night in my study wasn't just about transparency.
It was what I now call the "Miracle Marriage Method."
Introducing The Miracle Marriage Method
This is the proven path to reviving your marriage, but you can’t skip steps.
Most Christian husbands are trying to jump straight to "spiritual leadership" and "biblical authority" without ever building the foundation of authentic transparency.
They're trying to lead from a false foundation.
And the more they push? The more their wife pulls away.
The more they try to act like "head of the household"? The more they start to feel like a guest in their own marriage.
But when you build this sequence correctly... when you start with real transparency and work your way up...
Your wife stops seeing you as someone trying to control her and starts seeing you as someone she can trust completely.
Your kids stop running past you to ask mom for permission and start coming to you because they know you'll really listen.
You stop feeling like a stranger in your own home and start feeling like the man your family has been waiting for.
It starts with one decision.
The one thing most Christian men fear more than losing their marriage: losing their image.
Not just confessing your sins - any man can confess to watching porn.
It takes a different kind of man to confess he doesn't know how to love.
Being transparent about your heart.
Your fears.
Your desperate love for your family.
Your terror that you're failing as a husband and father.
The moment you stop hiding your heart is the moment your wife starts giving you hers.
But you have to be willing to go first.
You have to be willing to build your marriage on this biblical foundation instead of the performance-based house of cards that's currently collapsing.
And that's exactly what the Miracle Marriage Method teaches you how to do.
Not through some touchy-feely emotional technique, but through the same biblical pattern that's been transforming relationships for thousands of years.
The same pattern that transformed my marriage with Nicole.
The same pattern that's saved over 1,000 marriages in my ministry.
You've tried performing. Pretending. Providing.
Now it's time to try the one thing you've never dared: getting real.
Because your wife doesn't want a perfect man.
She's waiting for the real one to finally come home.
After watching men weep for joy after finally saving their marriages - I knew this couldn't stay locked in my study.
Not when Christian marriages are dying by the tens of thousands.
Not when good men are losing their families because nobody taught them how to be real instead of just "right."
But I also knew this was bigger than just one exercise or technique.
What God had revealed went deeper than that.
See, after that night when He showed me the true meaning of "giving yourself up" in Ephesians 5:25...
I became obsessed with finding the biblical pattern that could save marriages.
Not just theory. Not more "pray harder" advice.
But actual, battle-tested steps that would work for real Christian men in the trenches of broken marriages.
Men didn't need more teaching. They needed weapons.
Tools. Battle-tested steps.
A way to show their wives the real them - without getting crushed.
So I brought together an initial “test group” of men struggling in their marriages…
Together, we dug deep into Scripture...
Studying how Christ actually related to His church...
Analyzing the marriages of biblical patriarchs...
When we tested this restoration process with desperate couples, the transformation was immediate.
Like Don And Jasmine...
They came to me after many years of marriage, barely speaking to each other.
They barely communicated, let alone had intimacy, in months.
I gave them just ONE piece of our system - the Open Lines Transparency Exercise.
That night, Jasmine reached for Don’s hand for the first time in months.
She cried.
Not because she was hurt - but because for the first time in years, she finally felt her husband.
The real him. Not the "spiritual leader" mask he'd been hiding behind.
That's when we knew: This worked.
And it wasn't a fluke.
Couple after couple experienced the same transformation.
Wives who had emotionally checked out suddenly became affectionate again...
Children who used to ignore dad started seeking his wisdom...
Men who felt like failures in their own homes became the spiritual leaders their families actually wanted to follow.
We refined everything into a complete, step-by-step system.
A biblical sequence that rebuilds marriages from the foundation up:
Starting with true transparency...
Building unshakeable confidence...
Creating genuine trust...
Restoring deep intimacy...
Rekindling shared dreams...
And finally - establishing real spiritual teamwork.
Each step had to happen in order.
Skip one, and the whole thing collapses.
That's why most Christian marriage advice fails - it tries to build intimacy without first laying the foundation of transparency.
It took months of testing, refinement, and prayer to get it exactly right.
But after watching over 1,000 couples transform their marriages through this system...
After seeing it work in my own marriage with Nicole for 31 years...
I can say with absolute certainty: This is God's blueprint for bringing dead marriages back to life.
We call it the Miracle Marriage Method.
Not because it sounds good...
But because it's the only blueprint I've ever seen that takes Christian husbands from rejected and confused...
To trusted, respected, and wanted again.
And for the first time, I'm not keeping it behind church doors.
I'm handing it to you.
Because your marriage can't wait for another church conference.
Your family can't survive another year of surface-level spirituality.
You need this now.
And I'm going to show you exactly how to use it...
It's your shot at finally being the husband your wife WANTS - not just the one she's stuck with.
It's the ONLY transformation system designed specifically for Christian husbands who are done pretending and ready to become real men of God.
No more performance-based Christianity.
No more "pray harder" guilt trips.
No more feeling like a stranger in your own home.
Instead, the Miracle Marriage Method gives you the exact biblical sequence - God's divine pattern - for rebuilding your marriage from the foundation up.
Just follow our proven 10-minute evening exercises...
And watch as your wife starts looking at you differently.
Your kids start running TO you instead of past you.
Your home becomes a sanctuary instead of a battlefield.
It contains just 6 foundational values We Install Into Your Marriage, backed by:
25+ years of pastoral experience
Over 1,000 transformed marriages
Zero endless counseling
Because this isn't theory. This is God's blueprint for bringing dead marriages back to life.
Since its release, the Miracle Marriage Method has transformed over 1,000 Christian marriages.
Like Kevin Cook who wrote: "Don didn't just fix my marriage - he brought me closer to Jesus."
And Donnie Petty: "Without exaggerating, it's been a lifesaver. The tools are incredibly practical AND spiritually powerful."
And Don Mills: "We went from barely speaking to smiling again. Our marriage is completely different."
Here’s what it looks like when you take action on the lessons and truly become the Husband she’s always wanted …
Week 1: Watch her eyes actually light up when you walk through the door... instead of that tired look that says "great, another person who needs something from me."
Month 1: Feel her hand reach for yours during church... not out of obligation, but because she genuinely wants to touch you again.
Month 2: Wake up to her moving closer to you in bed... instead of clinging to her side like you're radioactive.
Month 3: Hear your kids say "Let's ask Dad" instead of automatically running past you to Mom for everything.
Imagine walking into your house and feeling like you BELONG there.
Imagine your wife texting you during the day because she misses you... not just because she needs you to pick up milk.
Imagine family dinner where everyone actually wants to be there... including you.
Imagine lying in bed talking and laughing together... instead of staring at the ceiling wondering how you became strangers.
And the transformation happens so fast ... blink and you miss it ...
Your wife stops seeing you as the guy who pays the bills and starts seeing you as the man she chose.
Your kids stop treating you like a guest and start treating you like their hero.
You stop dreading your own front door and start looking forward to coming home.
BECAUSE WHEN YOU STOP PERFORMING AND START BEING REAL...
Everything changes.
No more surface-level prayers masking deep loneliness.
No more providing financially as your only value... like you're just some walking ATM she tolerates.
No more walking on eggshells in your own home.
No more lying awake at 2 AM wondering if she'll leave.
When you stop PERFORMING your faith and start LIVING it authentically... everything changes.
When you quit hiding behind the "strong Christian man" mask and let her see the real you... the broken, searching, beautifully human you...
That's when she remembers why she fell in love with you in the first place.
The Miracle Marriage Method Helps You Become The Man That Can Win Her Back
What If You Could...
Stop lying awake at 2AM wondering if she's planning her escape...
And instead wake up to a wife who actually wants to be close to you again?
Walk through your front door and see your kids' faces light up...
Instead of watching them run past you to ask mom for permission?
Pray with your wife without it feeling like another performance...
And actually experience the spiritual intimacy you've been faking for years?
Lead your family from genuine strength instead of desperate control...
Because they trust you, not because they have to?
Because here's what happens when you master these six biblical values...
Your wife stops seeing you as the guy she's stuck with and starts seeing you as the man she chose.
Your children stop avoiding you and start seeking your wisdom.
Your home stops feeling like a battlefield and becomes the sanctuary God designed it to be.
This isn't another "7 steps to better communication" marriage course.
This is the complete biblical restoration system that's already saved over 1,000 marriages from certain divorce.
It's a step by step process, and designed to help you know EXACTLY what to do next at every point.
You get instant access to Father Don's complete masterclass, where he walks you through the 6 biblical values that saves marriages and helped over 1,000 couples reconnect.
The system that transforms Christian husbands from emotional strangers into covenant partners their families actually want to follow.
Normally this complete transformation system would cost $97...
(That's far cheaper than meeting with a marriage counselor who'll probably make things worse.)
But today, because your marriage can't wait for you to save up money...
You get everything for just $17.
Normal Price $97
Today's Special Price: $17
This Is For Everyone Who Wants A Stronger, Deeper Marriage
This Method is specifically designed for Christian husbands who:
Are serious about finally saving their marriage and restoring their relationship.
Prefer simple, proven systems over complicated relationship theories.
Are willing to spend 15 minutes a day nurturing their marriage
Want to fall deeply in love again
This Is The Exact Method That's Transforming Marriages All Over The World
If you're not completely transformed - if your wife isn't looking at you differently, if your kids aren't respecting you again, if your home isn't becoming a sanctuary - just let us know within 30 days for a full refund.
No questions. No hassles. No risk.
Click the button below now.
Your marriage can't wait.
You can pretend it's not urgent.
Or you can admit what your wife already knows - your marriage is dying.
Click that button before she makes the call you'll never recover from.
Before your kids start asking why Mommy cries in the bathroom.
Before you become another divorce statistic in the church directory.
This is your last shot at the marriage you thought you were getting.
Don't waste it.
Soon your wife won't just look at you … she'll desire you with fire in her bones again.
Normal Price $97
Today's Special Price: $17
Here's How It Works
Get Instant Access
Study The Program
Plant Deep Roots
"Love It Or Leave It" 100% Money-Back Guarantee
Try The Miracle Marriage Method for a full 30 days. If you don't go from struggling husband to confident leader - or if your marriage isn't thriving in ways you never thought possible - simply email us and we'll refund every penny. No questions asked. No awkward explanations needed.
Get The Miracle Marriage Method Now
Privacy Policy | Terms And Conditions |
"This website is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or in any way officially connected with Facebook™, Facebook Inc., Meta Platforms, Inc., Instagram™, TikTok™, Google™, or any other third-party platforms where our advertisements may appear. All product and company names are trademarks™ or registered® trademarks of their respective holders. Use of them does not imply any affiliation or endorsement. All information provided on this site is for informational and/or promotional purposes only. While we make every effort to ensure that the information presented is accurate and up to date, we make no guarantees of any kind. Individual results may vary and are not guaranteed."
NOT FACEBOOK: This site is not a part of the Facebook™ website or Facebook Inc. Additionally, This site is NOT endorsed by Facebook™ in any way. FACEBOOK is a trademark of FACEBOOK, Inc. DISCLAIMER: Please understand results are not typical. Your results will vary and depend on many factors.
Owned By The Axios Foundation And Trust
Contact Customer Support: [email protected]
Customer Support Phone: +1 717-892-5291