Here's How To Win Your Spouse Back, Save Your Marriage, And Have That Dream Relationship You've Always Wanted
Father Don Purdum here, and I wanted to show you the very first step in restoring your marriage, no matter how far gone it may feel right now.
For Jesus has said "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and life to the fullest."
I personally believe the Lord Jesus wants life to the fullest for you and your marriage.
But the truth is ...
You’re Here Because Things Haven’t Been Going Right In Your Marriage, Probably For A Very Long Time
At first, most couples notice the small changes - maybe they were talking less over dinner, or those little gestures of affection became less frequent.
They brushed it off, thinking it was just a phase.
But as time went on, things got worse.
Arguments became more frequent and intense.
They found themselves walking on eggshells, afraid to say the wrong thing. The love and connection they once felt seemed to be slipping away.
Then came that moment they'll never forget - maybe it was a huge fight that left them both in tears, or perhaps one spouse uttered those dreaded words: 'I want a divorce.'
That's when it hits most men - their marriage is in real trouble.
That's their lowest point ...
These men lie awake at night, wondering how things got so bad, feeling hopeless and alone.
The dream of a happy, lifelong marriage seems impossibly far away.
Right Now, You Might Be Feeling Lost And Alone In Your Marriage.
The silence between you and your spouse is deafening.
You tiptoe around each other, afraid that the smallest misstep could trigger another argument.
The warmth and passion that once filled your home have been replaced by cold indifference or simmering resentment.
Your children sense the tension, their laughter and joy muted by the weight of your struggling relationship.
But imagine a different future - one that you'll have once you integrate the lessons inside the Miracle Marriage Method:
You wake up each morning, turning to see your spouse's loving smile.
The air is filled with the aroma of freshly brewed coffee and the sound of your children's cheerful voices.
As you start your day with a shared devotional, you feel a deep sense of spiritual connection with your partner.
Your conversations are no longer just about mundane chores or schedules.
Instead, you share your dreams, hopes, and fears openly, knowing you'll be met with understanding and support.
Those little gestures of affection - a gentle touch, a knowing glance - that had disappeared are now a natural part of your day again.
When challenges arise - because life will always have its ups and downs - you face them together as a united front.
Your home becomes a haven of peace and love, not just for you and your spouse, but for your children and all who enter.
This isn't just a dream. It's the reality that countless couples have achieved through these lessons.
And it can be your reality too.
Now Look, I Understand That The Weight Of Winning Your Spouse Back And Resolving Marital Issues Isn’t Light.
It’s not easy - especially when you feel like you’re all alone on this journey.
If it were easy, you’d likely already have pure joy and the problems would have faded away by now.
At some point, we all have to seek out help …
After all, we were never meant to go alone in the Christian walk!
1 Thessalonians 5:11: "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
That’s why you’re here on this page - because “going it alone” hasn’t worked yet …
And the longer you go it alone, the harder things will be.
But there’s good news!
Today, you can have strong support in your marriage so you never have to “go it alone” ever again.
After 20 Years Of Working With Christian Couples On The Brink Of Divorce, I've Discovered A Profound Truth That’s Restoring Relationships
You know what they say - where there’s a will, there’s a way.
That’s why no marriage is beyond saving. Not yours. Not anyone's.
Even if your spouse has already packed her bags and left.
Even if you're sleeping in separate bedrooms, strangers under one roof.
Even if the words 'I love you' have become a distant memory.
You Might Be Thinking, 'Father Don, You Don't Know My Situation. It's Hopeless'
But let me tell you something that might shock you:
I've seen Christ resurrect marriages that were dead and buried.
I've witnessed couples who couldn't stand to be in the
same room transform into passionate lovers again.
I've seen God's grace melt hearts hardened by years of addiction, infidelity, and bitter resentment.
I've watched in awe as spouses who swore they were 'done forever' fall deeper in love than ever before.
These aren't just stories.
These are real people.
Real marriages.
Real miracles.
That’s why I call this the “Miracle Marriage Method.”
Because it revives marriages - just like how the Lord Jesus himself rose from the dead on the 3rd day.
And Here's The Most Important Part: These Couples Who "Made It" Weren't Special.
They Didn't Have Some Secret Advantage
What makes this method work is that we don’t focus on “ourselves” …
Or our “partner” …
But instead building trust, confidence, and transparency …
Then focusing the relationship on Jesus Christ.
Because ultimately, he will be the one to “resurrect” the marriage.
My job is just to help you open up to let that happen.
When we focus on what really brings us together - Jesus Christ, the living God - then you’ll watch as 95% of problems self-resolve or fade away.
That’s when all the faith, hope, and love truly flourishes.
When You First Got Married, You Said “I Do” To Faith, Hope, And Love
You stood up at the altar and said “I do” to a life with your partner - and all the joys that come with that.
Now it’s time to say “I do” again, and rightfully reclaim that loving, harmonious relationship that you can have.
Because you deserve that, I’m going to share the #1 thing that’s changed everything for couples I’ve worked with ...
This Powerful Truth Will Set You Free And Fill Your Heart With Joy - Even Right Now
The couples I’ve worked with that go on to have thriving marriages all discovered that Jesus had already secured the victory for their marriage.
That's right.
If it's God's will for your marriage to be restored (and I believe it is), then the battle is already won in the spiritual realm.
But here's where many Christian husbands get stuck:
Knowing the victory is yours is one thing.
Living it out is another.
It's like inheriting a fortune but not knowing how to access the bank account.
Today, I’m going to give you the login to that spiritual bank account, so you can claim all the promises of God for your marriage.
The Riches Are Yours, But You Can't Enjoy Them Until You Learn How To Tap Into Them
Jesus Christ has won the victory for your marriage, but you need to learn how to 'cash in' on that victory in your daily life.
Remember how I said there’s “one condition” just a bit ago?
This is it …
If You Submit To The Victory Jesus Has For You, And His Vision For Your Marriage, You’ll Not Just Fix Your Marriage …
You’ll inherit unstoppable, never ending joy.
Even when things are hard.
Imagine waking up every morning to your spouse’s loving smile.
Picture praying together, hand in hand, your hearts beating as one.
You’ve never loved each other more …
You never even thought this kind of love was possible …
It almost feels like a dream.
But it’s so vivid and real - it’s truly yours!
Your children are now growing up in a home filled with laughter, love, and the light of Christ.
You know you have each other’s backs …
And together you can face any challenge.
Because Christ already won the victory for you.
You’re just walking in his victory and enjoying such a close relationship with both your spouse, and the King of all creation.
This Is What I Call 'Walking In Victory' - And It's A Skill That Can Be Learned
It means aligning your thoughts, actions, and decisions with the truth of what Christ has already accomplished.
It means facing each marital challenge with the confidence that the outcome is already determined in your favor.
But here's the catch...
Just because the victory is secure doesn't mean the journey is easy.
You still have to go through the process of renewing your mind, changing old habits, and applying biblical principles to your specific situation.
And you weren't meant to navigate this journey alone.
That's where I come in.
In my two decades of ministry, I've witnessed the darkest moments in Christian marriages - infidelity, addiction, and the subtle snares of the enemy.
But I've also seen something miraculous: the power of Christ to resurrect even the most broken relationships.
Let me share a verse that changed everything for me - both in my marriage, and life in general.
And I believe it will do the same for you…
“We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.” - Romans 6:4
Now, of course, Paul is writing about the resurrection of the dead …
But he’s also talking about newness of life in every area.
Your children …
Your finances …
Hope for the future...
And Of Course, Newness Of Life For Your Marriage Too
Even if your wife has walked out, even if you feel utterly alone, even if hope seems like a distant memory - there's a path forward.
And I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
You see, this isn't just about 'fixing' your marriage.
It's about aligning your relationship with God's divine plan and submitting fully to him.
It's about transforming your union into a living testament of Christ's love. And as a result, having the best, most loving relationship humanly possible.
But Here's The Catch - While Victory Is Assured, The Battle Is Still Real
You need someone who's been in the trenches, someone who can help you navigate the spiritual warfare that threatens your marriage.
That's where I come in.
My life's mission is to walk with couples like you through the fire, always pointing you straight to Jesus.
I'm not here to offer quick fixes or worldly advice.
I'm Here To Help You Tap Into The Transformative Power of Christ In Your Marriage
Now, I can't work with everyone.
My time is limited, and I want to ensure I can give my full attention to those I can truly help.
This Is Why I Created The Miracle Marriage Mentorship - A Hands On Approach To Restoring Your Marriage, Strengthening Your Faith, And Walking In The Victory Jesus Provides
It's a three month, hands on group mentorship program where I work with you on live calls to solve the most pressing problems in your marriage.
It's two live calls a week.
This first is a coaching call where you can bring your unique situation to me, and we can work on it together.
This is where we can help your specific situation ...
Giving you the clarity and hope that things can be better.
The second session each week is a teaching call, where we dive into the Bible to show you the timeless principles of a strong, Godly marriage.
This is where we "forge" your marriage into a strong, unbreakable bond.
And it doesn't matter if your wife is in attendance, or if you're separated right now.
We can work on the root issues together to solve them for good.
And we'll make sure that you get your questions answered right away.
This means you will have the clarity, confidence, and insight you need to save your marriage.
There’s No Such Thing As A “Magic Bullet” - And There Aren’t Any Real “Shortcuts” To Your Dream Marriage
But there are foundational strategies and techniques you can use to consistently rebuild your relationship - no matter how far gone it is.
Most counselors and therapists have no idea these strategies even exist …
Worse yet, there are some that DO know about these, but are afraid that they may ‘lose your business’ if they solve your problems and fix your marriage.
After all, therapy is a business.
And that business is built on recurring income, they expect you to come for years and years.
Have you ever noticed that sometimes therapists get so close to solving the real problem …
But never actually do?
Therapy can be a really good option for you if you don’t mind spending several years working through issues …
Or if you merely want to feel like you’re making progress …
But if you want the “shortcut” to repairing your marriage today, then the Miracle Marriage Mentorship is for you.
Over The Course Of Many Months, Sometimes Years, Couples Spend $5,000 - $10,000+ In Therapy Only To Never Resolve Their Problems
This is a serious issue ...
Because if you enroll in therapy today, you may see some change.
But statistically, it's limited and doesn't solve the root issues.
Did you know that therapy only works about 38% of the time?
That's the number of marriages that make it past 4 years of therapy ...
You know, over the years, I've seen couples try just about everything to save their marriages.
They often start with well-meaning advice from friends.
"Just communicate more," they say, or "Go on more date nights."
And sure, that sounds good on the surface.
But here's the thing - when there are deep-rooted issues in a marriage, simply talking more or going out to dinner isn't going to solve them.
In fact, forced communication can sometimes make things worse if you're not addressing the real problems.
Then there are the self-help books.
I Can't Tell You How Many Couples I've Met Who Have A Shelf Full Of Relationship Books, But Their Marriages Are Still Struggling
Why?
Because while these books offer general advice, they can't possibly address your unique situation or provide the personalized guidance you need.
Some couples, desperate for a quick fix, try couples retreats.
And don't get me wrong, these can be great for a temporary boost. But what happens when you get back home and face the same old problems?
That weekend getaway feeling fades pretty quickly, doesn't it?
I've also seen people turn to individual therapy, thinking if they can fix themselves, their marriage will improve.
And while personal growth is important, it doesn't directly address the dynamics between you and your spouse.
It's like trying to fix a broken car by only working on one part - you might make some improvements, but the car still won't run right.
And then there's traditional marriage counseling, which as I said earlier only works about 38% of the time.
The truth is, all these approaches fall short because they're missing a crucial element.
They don't fully integrate the spiritual aspect of marriage or provide the Christ-centered guidance you need.
That isn't fair to you ...
And it certainly isn't fair to your spouse.
That's where the Miracle Marriage Method comes in...
Now, I Want You To Take A Moment And Reflect On Your Own Marriage. Ask Yourself These Questions:
As I ask these questions, really reflect on your situation.
Are you and your spouse growing closer together, or does it feel like you're drifting apart?
When you talk, is it mostly about day-to-day logistics, or do you still share your hopes, dreams, and faith with each other?
Have you found yourself walking on eggshells lately, afraid to bring up certain topics with your spouse?
What about intimacy - both emotional and physical?
Has that become a source of joy, or a point of tension and disappointment?
Do you feel like your marriage still has that strong spiritual connection it once had?
Or has that aspect of your relationship been neglected?
Be honest with yourself - have you ever caught yourself wondering if this is all there is to marriage?
Or even if you made a mistake?
And if you have children, have you worried about how the tension in your home might be affecting them?
If you found yourself nodding along to any of these questions, I want you to know something important: You're not alone.
These are the same struggles I've seen in countless marriages over my 20 years of ministry.
But here's the good news - recognizing these issues is the first step towards healing.
And that's exactly why you're here today...
When You Enroll In The Miracle Marriage Mentorship, You Become The Person Worthy Of A Great Marriage - That's When All Hardships Start Reversing (Even If You Don't See It At First)
This means we can start repairing the relationship in less time.
In turn, you can live the life the Lord has in mind for you.
To Help You Determine If This Is A Fit For You, I'm offering a select number of complimentary 30-minute 1-on-1 sessions.
Think of this as an introductory "get to know you" call to see if this is a fit for both of us.
This isn't just a call - it's your first step towards reclaiming the marriage God intended for you.
In just half an hour, we'll dive deep into your unique situation and determine if we're the right fit to work together.
Don't let another day go by feeling disconnected from your wife and from God.
The path to a stronger, more fulfilling marriage starts with a single click.
Schedule your complimentary session now.
Spots Are Filling Up Fast, And I Don't Want You To Miss This Opportunity To Turn Your Marriage And Life Around
Because of my limited schedule, I can only do a few calls a day.
That’s it …
Once these spots are taken, there won’t be an opportunity to work with me that day.
Because of this, I sometimes book out weeks in advance.
Now, You Might Be Wondering What Exactly Happens On This Complimentary 30-minute Call. Let Me Break It Down For You:
First, we'll take a deep dive into your unique situation. I'll listen carefully to understand the specific challenges you're facing in your marriage.
This isn't just a surface-level chat - we'll get to the root of what's really going on.
Then, based on my 20 years of experience and the principles of the Miracle Marriage Method, we'll craft a customized plan to save your marriage.
This isn't a one-size-fits-all approach. We'll develop strategies tailored specifically to your situation.
By the end of our call, you'll have a clear roadmap for restoring your marriage.
You'll know exactly what steps you need to take to start turning things around.
Now, here's the really exciting part.
If it seems like we're a good fit to work together, I'll share how you can join our Miracle Marriage Mentorship program.
This is where we provide the hands-on support and guidance to help you fully implement your personalized plan.
But let me be clear - this call is valuable whether you decide to join the mentorship or not.
You'll walk away with insights and strategies you can start applying immediately to improve your marriage.
So don't worry about any high-pressure sales tactics.
That's not what this is about.
This call is about providing you with real value and seeing if we're the right fit to help you further.
Remember, your marriage is worth fighting for.
This call could be the turning point you've been praying for.
This Means If You’re Serious About Changing Your Life And Winning Your Spouse Back, You Need To Book Your Free Call Now
Remember, with Christ, all things are possible - including the restoration of your marriage.
You Stand At A Crossroads Right Now
One path leads to more of the same - pain, loneliness, and regret.
The other leads to the marriage you've always dreamed of, the one God designed for you.
And right now, I want you to really stop (full 2 second pause) and get this thought into your mind.
(Take Another pause) …
I want you to fully feel the truth and power of it….
You Deserve The Full Joy Your Life Could Have …
Including all the happiness …
Fulfillment …
And the lasting meaning and purpose Jesus has for you.
And even if you’re not as concerned with your own joy as you should be, I think we can both agree.
That your wife deserves all the blessings of God that you do …
And we both know that a future with you is the best future there is …
I know this for a fact because you already married her - which means that God brought you both together.
And because of this simple fact, I know staying together is the “best path forward for the both of you”.
And when you choose to work with me …
That is exactly the path you will be taking!
Your journey to marital restoration begins with a single click.
Don't let fear or doubt hold you back any longer.
Your future - your family's future - is waiting.
Just schedule your call below to take the first step towards your victory in marriage.
In His Service,
Father Don